Wednesday, January 20, 2010

jom CERIA!!

assalamualaikum...

macam-macam berita gempak, cemas, sedih dan menakutkan yg kita baca baru-baru ini. kisah penganggur bunuh 4 org ahli keluarganya, pelancong itali mati di telaga tujuh, Langkawi, pelajar-pelajar yg mati lemas di P.Pinang, mat rempit tergolek mati hampir putus dua badannya, anak kecil yg ditinggal mati jatuh kondo, anak kecil mati dihempap tv besar...dan macam-macam lagi yg kalau nak ditulis kat sini mahunya saya pulak yg jadi 'mandom' sebab sedih dan risau.




ibu mana yg tak sayang anak, walaupun 4 org ahli keluarga sendiri dibunuh anaknya tu.


tapi itu semua memang kerja org suratkhabar...utk citerkan bebenda itu semua. bukan salah diorng. kalau tak 'paper' tak laku plak. tapi sebagaimana saya cakap kat diri dan keluarga sendiri janganlah kita plak yg terikut-ikut sedih, gusar dan jadi tak ceria. samada apapun yg telah, sedang dan akan kita buat 'perkara-perkara' yg tak seronok camtu akan tetap berlaku. cerialah! dan syukurlah sentiasa atas nikmat kehidupan yg Allah berikan ini. hidup adalah satu amanah, kehidupan adalah satu anugerah..kalau kita jalani kehdupan ini dgn murung dan tak ceria kerana 'perkara-perkara' tak syok (spt tadi)yg berlaku dan mengesankan kita...maka sendirilah yg salah. jadi kena ceria beb!!

seperti kata-kata seorang penyair;

Banyak mata terbelalak
sementara yang lainnya terpejam.
Di dunia nyata sesuatu boleh ada, boleh juga tiada
Maka lemparkan sekuat tenaga kesedihan hatimu
sebab kesedihanmu
hanya akan membuatmu menjadi gila.
Sesungguhnya Tuhanmu telah menyiapkan
apa yang kau perlukan esok hari
dan kau akan menjumpai kecukupan itu
ketika kau menjalaninya.

jadi?? apa tunggu lagi....1...2...3...jum CERIA!!...wallahualam

Friday, January 15, 2010

ourselves, our kids....

assalamualaikum...

it’s been 2 struggling weeks for me and wife as parent. those, whenever only the eldest was schooling we only need to get-down with 10 pairs of uniform, one-person pocket money, one-person expenses to be exact. but now, since the 2nd one has joint in, everything’s seem so tiring...well now the number of uniform has increased to 20 pairs and all the expenses need to be double-up accordingly. honestly, I’m not complaining just narrating my...so called factual-taxing story while waiting for the ‘platform’ become sturdier. eventually, now the platform although there are some minor shakes, but has become a little bit firmer and sturdier...Alhamdulillah, syukur!.
















every parents, I believe are facing this. these are our responsibilities. we need to do this. for me doing this still a little bit easier compare to; try to coupe-up with...by not having children. especially after been married for certain number of years. don’t you think so? tiring? taxing? less rest and sleep? well, it’s all worth it. if you ask any married couple that was not being able to have kid yet...I believe 70 to 80 percent of them willing to trade places with you. kids wouldn’t troubling you...they just kids. they carrying their ‘job’ as kids…that’s it! the problem lies in us as the parent. we seem to misunderstand what ‘exactly’ their job is...yes!- we also use to have the same ‘job’ but unfortunately we can’t recall it. then...whose mistake would it be?

this article is not my way of showing the smart side of me by asking you guys what we should and shouldn’t do concerning to our loving children. this was written merely meant for myself. to calm me...and to-without-fail reminding me some of the things that I may confronted whilst raising my own kids. that’s it…nothing much and nothing less. as to parents like us (me and wife), it’s not the obligation of raising kids that will haunt us, it’s the thought of whether they mind us or not in the future. doesn’t 'love' works both ways?...wallahualam.

Friday, January 08, 2010

langkah memantau suami oleh isteri??

assalamualaikum...

salam Jumaat. hahahaa...we should've this in Malaysia!. itulah saja benda yg mula-mula terlintas di fikiran saya. tempat untuk para suami (atau bapak-bapak) lepak bila menemani isteri (atau para ibu) pergi membeli-belah atau menyelesaikan urusan 'keperempuanan' mereka. cuma di Malaysia tak perlulah dibuat dlm konsep pub...nanti jadi benda lain plak. isteri-isteri dan ibu-ibu pun tentu suka sebab senang nak cari balik si suami bila dah habis shopping atau selesai dgn kerja mereka. takde le si suami itu 'hilang' tak tentu pasal sampai susah nak cari. bahkan si suami mungkin boleh jadi 'mithali' dlm bab menemani si isteri pergi shopping tu.














kalau boleh dlm kindergarten utk suami tu...adakan plak program-program ceramah atau kaunseling yg dapat meningkatkan 'peranan' suami tu kepada yg lebih hebat lagi. gelonsor, lego, papan dam jgn letaklah. sebab suami memang suka bebenda camtu....nanti si isteri tak 'letakkan' dia kat manergarten tu...dia plak pergi sendiri...hah!! haruuu...

kalau kena caj bayaran lagi baik (walaupun ia ditampung oleh si isteri). sebab? bila ada kena caj dah tentulah ada 'guard' yg jaga tempat tu...maka si suami tak bolehle merayap keluar dari manergarten tu ikut suka hati dia je. tapi jgnla letak guard 'wanita' plak...nanti benda lain pada si suami plak yg 'merayap'. amacam?? setuju? bagi saya yg selalu 'terperangkap' bila menemani isteri pergi shopping memang setuju habis...wallahualam

Wednesday, January 06, 2010

perghhk!....banyak tuuu....

assalmualaikum...

sebagai renungan bersama.

Kutipan Syarikat Perjudian Untuk Tahun 2008 (RM)*

Genting Malaysia Berhad 949,802,170

Sport Toto 509,739,584

Magnum Corporation 396,477,793

Pan Malaysia Pools 270,764,197

Pan Malaysia Racing 138,576,130

Daily One Corporation 18,082,749

Sandakan Turf Club 18,182,034

Sarawak Turf and Equestrian Club 29,776,000

JUMLAH 2.37 BILLION.

kemanakah agak-agaknya 2.37 billion dari hasil judi tersebut di belanjakan?. sama-samalah kita renungkan. adakah aktiviti 'ini' akan terus 'dibolehkan' di boleh-land tercinta kita ini? sama-samalah lagi kita renungkan...kalau 'boleh' - renungkan dalam-dalam. dan adakah 'ini' yang akan kita wariskan kepada anak-anak kita....lagi sekali renungkanlah!...wallahualam.


*p/s: sumber artikel - Rakyat Marhaen.